One noxious defense of homophobia is the idea that queer couples are sinful because they’re unnatural and unnatural because they cannot biologically conceive.
I’m a Recovering Evangecapitalist.
Category: Relationship-ing
Thank You for Your Company: a Tribute to Ellie Mae (1941-2019)
My mother, a witty reductionist and a first-generation Chinese American, says that Chinese folks plant vegetables while white folks plant flowers.
Why Did I Say “I Do”?
So, in the face of all opposition, why did I decide to get married?
The Sacrament of the Queer Wedding: A Scrapbook
Our wedding was a sacrament. In the Christian tradition, all weddings are sacraments. And queer weddings are sacraments too and are sacraments especially.
To Labor With You
Our home is stamped with Ada’s art: photographs of the canyon from our first trip together; a mounted sage leaf from my grandmother’s garden and a jay feather from our first neighborhood; our wedding vows framed in our bouquets’ peony petals - this piece is my favorite.
Memento Amare: A Post That Isn’t a Post
Zora told me not to write this week.
“Sloppy Wet” or “Unforeseen”: A Need for a New Sexual Ethic
If you’re from a conservative Christian background and trying to navigate the ethics of sex, this one’s for you, whether or not you are blessed to be LGBTQ.
